I don't know how James Costello and Krista D'Agostino view fate or destiny or the meaning of life, but something I use in my own life is the idea that we can retroactively give meaning to the tough things that happen to us, and this story seems like a very sweet example of that:
Boston Marathon bombing victim James Costello believes the worst moment of his life was a blessing in disguise.All the blubs forever. Congratulations to both of them.
Being injured in the April 15 attack led Costello, 31, to meet his future bride, Krista D’Agostino, while she was working a six-week temporary stint as a traveling nurse at Spaulding Rehabilitation Hospital. He was transferred there after undergoing multiple surgeries over two weeks at Massachusetts General Hospital, and the two began a relationship that culminated in a wedding proposal in France during a recent 10-day trip.
..."I now realized why I was involved in the tragedy," Costello wrote on Facebook. "It was to meet my best friend, and the love of my life. Eight months later I'm happy to announce that we will spend the rest of our lives together."
Costello's story of finding love after tragedy touched people across the world, who recognized him as the subject of one of the most widely viewed images in the wake of the blast. A photographer captured Costello staggering through the streets with his clothes shredded and his legs burned. ...At the moment the bomb went off, Costello had been walking toward the Boston Marathon's finish line with five of his friends to cheer on others. Three of those friends each lost a leg; the others suffered extensive burns and shrapnel wounds. Costello underwent multiple surgeries, including several skin grafts, and then met D'Agostino during his recovery.
"I had noticed her in passing, and shortly after that she came into my room to cover a lunch break and change the dressing on my leg, and still no thoughts of (romance)," Costello said. "Then, after we realized we had some mutual friends, we started talking, and I invited her to a benefit."
What drew her to him? "That smile," D'Agostino said.
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